I think I found the root of sexism towards women (in culture)!

I want to say this is the root of cultural sexism. this is just my opinion. I'm not claiming any facts, or something everyone thinks the same thing.


It's in child birth! You know how men glorifying pain, and self satisfaction? Well, the continuation of humanity depends on a man's pleasure and a woman's pain. The man gets to ejaculate into the woman, and weither or not she had a good time she still has to suffer the pain of birthing a child.
You would think it would be the other way around. Men would be more understand and appreciative of a woman, because at some point alot of them will have a baby (or babies). but, that's only looking at it from one angle. The sexism comes in at "We both did the same thing, but you're the one that gets the torment!" With the way men are, that's like a major high five for them, and prison to the females. Something he had a good time doing ruined you : Biggest ego bust EVER! You both did the same act, and he got all the joy out if, while you have to "suffer the consequences" of continuing humanity. It wouldn't be so bad if child birth didn't hurt as much. It's the idea of being "superior" to not being able to naturally do something that causes so much pain.
Women are viewed as the things that make the babies, that grow into more people. Depending on the men in the culture, this is what happens to the baby makers. Women are the most powerful things in the planet is it is their duty to continue our existence by having to endure horrific pain. Putting negative social pressure into her natural order, is what degrades her about what we depend on her for. Make her think that's all she's for, and is not meant to enjoy the other expressions of life before bearing the pain responsibility of a new life. Degrade her more if she can't handle the responsibility and must give it to someone else that can.
As for the women that don't want to suffer the pains she losses status as a women, because "women are for making babies". She is harshly degraded, and put aside as unimportant to humanity. For women that can't fill their natural "reproductive objective," she is pitied, but there is still a "do as you will with her, for she can't get pregnant" to it. Never mind her take on her own situation, and weither or not she wants to have children, in the first place.
There is shame put to a women's body, in general, in alot of cultures. In America, a women's body and sexuality are a marketed subject. A women deemed attractive by our culture is displayed getting with a men that usually lacks psychical attractive standards that would match her's. This sends the message that "If this very attractive women will get with the average looking guy ANY women will get with you!" You'll have women getting naked on tv, but shame a sexual liberated women in real life.

When a women does or says things in the same context men do, and suffer punishment unlike the men that did the same thing or something similar is when it's clear. My best example is shirtless-ness. A men takes off his shirt, and it's acceptable. A women takes off her shirt, and she's being "indecent"? What is indecent about her chest, that is "decent" about his? In or out of sexual context. There are times and places for things, but it seems like there's less time and places for women to be as open as men about certain subjects.
I can't forget how "different" and "inferior/ superior" are interchangeable. Women are different from men, but because they're psychically weaker, and presumed emotionally unstable because they're more emotionally sensitive than men they're "inferior". Despite the fact that they're starter, as when someone lacks qualities their other qualities are advanced.
I said all that to say: "Women are so important, it's better for the male ego to degrade her for the very thing she's important for!"
There are only a few small cultures that have an understanding, and praise for women for what most of them do that some point in their lives. This is a problem in dire need of change.

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These deductions are based on what I've seen and experienced. I'm not saying everyone is treated or acts like any of these things.
There are individual reasons for being sexist, too.

Considering Tumer's gender *OMFG ART RELATED*

Tumer

http://www.furaffinity.net/view/1064243/

I know it has male on it already and I'm not gonna back on an thing and change things on old stuff because he was male at the time. However ,now on considering making Tumer my first officially espt TRANSGENDER character. Male tran - Cunt boy. I already thought he up with a penis and a vagina. If i do go with a penis and will be a small one.

I've put alot of thought into it. Here's some of what i got.

Penis - small : 1 or 2 inches.
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It would matter to him until someone at school finds out ,and starts teasing him about it. It can go blackmail so no one is told ,or just get around. Tumer's not one to give into being victimized so easily ,despite he apparent psychical weakness. It gets around school, but Tumer still doesn't care, because he doesn't plan on having an sex anyway. Of course the big guys (jock jerks) start picking on him ,and he still doesn't care until they start forcing him into sexual acts (for real reasons i haven't thought of yet). Not only on them ,but others regardless of gender. Tumer doesn't tell anyone for a while because he figures no one would care about him, but he finally has a break down after months of it going on ,and some escalation of activity. At first it's just hand and blow jobs ,but after Tumer stars being threatened with anal rape, and he thinks there's a good change he may have already been. Adrain (formally named Quiney) manipulates his cruse to punish not only the jocks ,but the person that originally tried to blackmail Tumer. He doesn't kill them so the authorities and their parents handle their more "lawful" punishment.

Later characters come in ,and when an adult one finds out Tumer is once again subjected to threats of sexual abuse. However this adult in far from human ,and there's lil Tumer ,Adrain and most anyone else they know can do about it. He already has a history of harassing Tumer before hand, so it's doesn't end up being a surprise that this would happen.

I have the male mostly set up except for his name, and his might have some family. He's no human ,nor necessarily a "demon". He'll mostly end up something that will only apply to the story he's in. The way he finds out about Tumer somehow finds him naked or something - chicle shower scene or whatever. Being the sadist type he'll give out a "Aww, how cute. I didn't know I was babysitting today/ night ," or something along those lines. Then he'll start randomly grabbing and groping Tumer and saying things like "It's so small. I wonder if it works like a normal sized one." i'm still working on all that ,but I got it pretty down.



Vagina - Haven't decided if he can breed with it or not as of yet.
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Tumer's life is more difficult ,as you can imagine. Boys have penises ,and girls have vaginas, but he's been estpd as a something that LOOKS like a boy ,but his a vagina. He's refereed to as male, but he doesn't like that because ,like said, boys have penises. He can't be called a girl, because he doesn't look like one ,without extra effort. He actually looks gender-indifferent if the face ,but most of his body is a believed (weak) male. He develops an unhearted demeanor about the subject, and when he reaches the age where hormones are in question with a sexual drive he turns hateful and foully twisted minded claiming he'll never have sex ,or fall in love. He believes no one will truly love a freak like him. Add the vagina on top of him being albino, and weak/ sickly looking.

He has already gathered it's unrealistic to think no one would want to just have sex with him. He's a living human being what holes to have sex in ,no matter how you look at it. Tumer sees relationships in a matter of roles ,and being the way he is his role is too questioned on either side. He just marks himself off as "an ugly weak freak" ,and goes on about his business - so to speak. He's told people that try to talk to him about it that he doesn't even touch himself (masturbate) ,for all his hatred. As much as professionals think that's a subject that needs to be farther explored Tumer's father disapproves of any attention on the subject. He doesn't know the deep dark thoughts in his son's mind ,and he'd rather keep it that way. This drives Tumer and his father farther apart ,and when rumors start to spread about his father attempting to kill him when he first started developing oddly he automatically accepts them as true. His father is a cold hearted person to being with ,so there's no reason for him to detore the notion. His father doesn't know this, and (or more so BECAUSE) his youngest son (Tumer's lil brother) develops a habit of explosive, violent behavior where ever he hears the whispers. It's already estd they don't speak on the subject in the house, but as things start to develop and stir what's apparent becomes harder to avoid. The thing is the rumors are true : He not only tried to dismember his child ,but he also put Tumer on all sorts of experimental pills to see of the development "problem" could be corrected. The person at the end of the penis part steps in to make things worse later. He's always harassed Tumer ,and he's been waiting for the subject of sexuality coming into play. He doesn't know off the bat about Tumer's vagina ,but he finds out and all hell breaks loose for the "boy".

How it got out is a reason I haven't thought of yet.

The small penis brings alot of strictly present day sexual abuse drama ,and the vagina brings more family drama.

Both still have a good amount of drama ,but the vagina will get more of a "turning point" emotional theme when the time comes where he accepts it.

Either way ,all he wants is love and he doesn't even know it.